So It took a long long time but I got my up date almost two months after I KINDLY asked for it.. But I still got it March 4th. Enclosed with the update was a three page letter and one picture. You know to catch me up on three years.
Cody and I have many things in common!:) We are both large fans of baseball, the color green, pasta, Star Wars( which he says rocks)<yes it does,Cookies and Pasta.
Cody goes on to ask me 8 questions. He is so smart and sweet. He thinks that we look alike.. boy is he correct! I have wrote back a few times with more questions and cards with no response. But Im going to keep sending them! It was all worth seeing his sweet face and reading about him! It sadly looks like I have passed my learning disability on to him ( Dyslexia). But I know he will strive and grow to be an incredible man!
Birth Mothers Day and Mothers Day are on the horizon and make me weepy and miss him even more! All the pain, scars and grief are worth it to see him in good home with two parents and big sister that love him!
I have been thinking about writing a blog entry on being a birth mother and going threw infertility.. I'm not sure if I'm ready for it or how to word it.. but if you know me on Twitter and read this let me know what your thoughts are!
I hope all of my girls are doing OK with this week! We all have our own story around mothers day that doesn't just involve infertility! Being infertile in a fertile world is so lonely I'm so glad I have my #hope girls! Your all on my heart!
Me my mom and Cody on the Day Cody met his parents and big sister!<3
I am so glad you got your update!
ReplyDeleteAs an adoptee, I found dealing with infertility brought up many of the issues/questions/feelings I had surrounding my own adoption.
I am glad Cody will get to know you through your letters and cards, I can only think that will help him with any questions he might have.
I, for one, would love to hear your side of things.
<3 Cody. He is just tooo cute. Guess he had to be, coming from you ;). I would read anything you write. You are an amazing woman and friend!
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